I've lost my pizazz.
I'd like to think I simply misplaced it somewhere, but I have the sneaking suspicion that it is missing from non-use.
I liken it to this: in the old days (pre-children) I could get showered, dressed, hair looking fantastic and even make-up done in under an hour. Now it takes me an hour to do my hair in a normal fashion -- and this isn't because of children interruptions. It's because I'm out of practice.
These days we're lucky if I'll change out of my pajamas into some sweats and a maternity top (I know, still! You're saying, "Rachel, pack them up. Seriously.") to go run errands.
My biggest hobby these days is cleaning my house to my compulsive standards. And with a dead, broken cell phone, I am sorely out of touch with information (read: gossip).
And so I'm hatching a plot. A plot to get some fabulous back into my life.
Not that my life isn't fabulous. I just want some of that college/single-life fabulousness I used to have: When I was somewhat fashion savvy, did my hair (instead of this frizzy, split-end nest laying on my head), ran on a regular basis, and cycled through hobbies such as skateboarding and belly dancing.
I'm sure this plan will involve some kind of incentive to get it done in the form of social pressure -- that's where you come in. Social pressure is the only way I ever get anything done. But I'll need to ponder on it. If you have any suggestions, feel free to leave a comment to that effect.
Then I can sit back and relax with a content, lazy smile across my lips.
7 comments:
Beside training for a triathlon, which we will be doing next year, I think that you need a creative hobby. One that doesn't cost a lot of money and is low on the frustration scale. Hmmm. How about paper mache art? J/K
I love sewing, but that's pretty intensive and hard to do with little kids. Umm, how about making friends as a hobby? Like going back to play group? Hint. Hint.
Take a spin class at your gym. That's a great hobby. You'll LOVE it and then get a road bike and you and Lane can fight over free time on Saturdays. Or learn how to golf, from your semi-pro husband. Then when the kiddies are bigger you and he can golf together.
There's my ideas. not too flashy, I know. already I can tell it's going to be a great day (said with sarcasm).
I've got nothin'.......crap
Sorry Julia, I hate to tell you that Fabulous and non-Fabulous Rachel alike is aloof (sounds nicer than anti-social, no?). I do LOVE friends. Really I do. I just also feel much more comfortable aloof.
what about a fabulous (easy to do) hair cut? i favor the a-lines
When you figure it out let me know. I do have to say I'm just getting out of the newborn haze and thinking I really could do some more interactive things with Sarah. We watch too many movies.
so this may not be the welcomed vantage point but it is well seasoned and wise from the years of investment. . take it for what it is worth but know it comes with LOVE:
"And so I'm hatching a plot. A plot to get some fabulous back into my life."
Embrace it and absolutely love it. . .when will you have this carefree, stress free and idyllic life again? Now you may think I'm crazy, but remember, this is perspective. You have perfect children. They are at the stages of absolutely no problems. . .adorable, perfect, wonderful. Remember the song (poem)of "turn around and. . ." I think from Fiddler on the Roof? Don't wish it away but enjoy every minute. Take deep breaths, pray, have your favorite hymn constantly in your mind to keep the mental attitude positive. . make lists of your blessings, take tons of pictures and realize the absolute glory and beauty of these perfect children. . .realize THIS day will never be lived again, read every positive thing you can, make signs of positive encouragements and post them around, find people to do things for to remind you quickly how very fortunate you are. . make a cake? Make two and give one away to someone who will love your incredible culinary skills. .
Are you feeling better? Remember it comes with love and much reflection. . .realizing I can never go back but YOU are there now. ..how lucky you are!!!!!
I second Mom Maygren's advice. In fact, her advice is good for anyone not just young mothers. I am going to print it off and put it on my bathroom mirror. (I am serious. Thanks Donna.)
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